"The Life of Studying is Much Better Than the Life of Working"

"The Life of Studying is Much Better Than the Life of Working"-Marí (host mother)

     After another delicious dinner prepared by my host mother Marí, our discussion about her parents' priorities led to a very insightful discussion about her decision to work instead of attend school.  When Marí was younger, she decided that she didn't want to stay in school because she preferred to work on her parents' farm.  She worked day and night while her brother and sister studied at the university.  As a result, she has bad knees, a bad back, as well as many other aches and pains.  Although her sister is older, Marí said that her sister is "much younger inside and out."  She advised me to work hard in school because I do not want to end up like her.

     In my opinion, Marí looks great for being 64 years old, she exercises with her friends everyday, and she is doing very well for herself considering her lack of higher education.  Apparently, her husband earns the money but she "controls the purse," while taking care of the household chores and housing international students to bring in extra income.  Marí also said "when I have money, I like to look at it" instead of spend it.  Since her parents had to pay for education, they didn't buy Marí unnecessary luxuries and she learned to be frugal.  We are both very thankful that our parents considered education a priority because it had an extremely strong influence on who we are today.  Even though we have only known each other for a short period, Marí truly inspires me to take full advantage of the enormous advantages I've been blessed with.

Secret photo during my grammar class!

     I have formulated a list of goals for the time that I spend in Spain that will all amount to my main goal of FLUENCY...

• In general, speak Spanish as much as possible but specifically: only speak Spanish in the apartment, with my host sisters, with my classmates during school hours, and when I meet new people.  It is much harder than you would think to stick to only Spanish because almost everyone that I meet wants to practice their English!  This will be a challenge that I face daily, but I must resist the urge to revert to my comfort zone everyday.
• Learn 5 Spanish vocabulary words every night before bed.  This will make everyday conversation easier.
• Participate in class as much as possible.  If I do my homework and pay attention, participation should be no problem.

     For those who want to make goals or New Year's Resolutions of your own, I have summarized a very helpful article from livestrong.com about successful goal setting.  The actual article is specifically gear towards losing weight but I find its applicable to a variety of areas!

1. measurable goal
2. dare yourself
3. tell your friends and family
4. reach out to your online social network for support and accountability
5. find a workout buddy or online group
6. prepare
7. plan a reward for yourself
8. visualize success at your resolution looks and feels like
9. believe in your ability to do this, praise yourself, and take pride
10. if your mess-up, forgive yourself and recommit to your goal

10 Steps to Succeed at New Year's Resolution of Weight Loss